Emotional Intelligence: Author, Daniel Coleman; Publisher, Simon & Schuster, 1990, and, The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People: Author, Stephen Covey; Publisher, Bantam Books, 1990
Take Back Your Power! is the "missing link" between these two bestsellers. The first tells you how your emotions control your intellect and the second informs us of the "habits" others have used successfully. Take Back Your Power! teaches you how to balance your emotions with your intellect, and how to develop your own dream instead of following others' ideas of successful habits. Our dream is the blueprint to our success and Take Back Your Power! is cutting edge with The 7 Secret Steps to living our dream, which have never been taught before.
This book uniquely reveals our dormant inner passions as we develop our own personal "style" instead of imitating someone else's successful habits, because imitation robs us of our authentic identity which lies within, and is only actualized by following our own gut instinct intelligence. We learn from the experiences that our instincts lead us to when we perceive them as lessons, through our own unique "view" - that is not colored by the "view" of someone else who has a totally different path than our own path - or we are destined to repeat each lesson until its unique message is learned. The Steps were developed to uncover the life-style that is inimitably our own, just like our fingerprints.
Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus: Author, John Gray; Publisher, Harper/Collins, 1992
Author John Gray presents a short term solution which is highly popular in cognitive therapy; however, it keeps the person tied to their source of help when problems continue to recur. His book fails to address "the mirror instinct" that prevents us from accepting his suggested behaviors, or how to desensitize "instinctive fear" that traps us in our old patterns.He uses his book for successful seminars that have been franchised, but participants report that when they go back to "real life" their old habits reappear and they feel like they "failed" when the problem is that the book and seminar stop short of reaching the full solution. Take Back Your Power! teaches us how to look inside for our answers so we become self-sufficient and are no longer dependent upon others to solve our problems.
Uncommon Sense for Parents: Author, Michael Riera, Ph.D.; Publisher, Celestial Arts, Berkeley, CA, 1995
This book was a selection from the "Oprah Show Book Club" that became a best seller. This author focuses upon the tough questions parents face during their children's adolescent years. He is quite candid in assessing how it's difficult to answer the questions posed because each child is "unique." Take Back Your Power! provides tools to create the basic parenting knowledge and experiences that most of us are missing because we can't teach something we haven't experienced. Take Back
Your Power!
reveals we have to
learn how to "value" our Self before we can teach a child how to value
his or her Self -
his or her uniqueness - the basis for self-esteem! It teaches us that
our primary opportunity to create a feeling of being esteemed is through the
experience of being valued in childhood so as an adult we can re-create the
feeling. Experiencing being valued through nurturing love is the most important
parenting of all. When children are taught to value their uniqueness, we will
eliminate teen suicide which is now at its highest rate.
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